‘I secretly wish. . .’ Caregivers’ expression of wish for death of persons with severe dementia

Abstract Background Qualitative evidence suggests that caregivers may express a wish for death of persons with severe dementia (PwSD). No study has assessed the extent to which it happens, stability of this wish over time and the factors associated with it. Objectives We examined caregivers’ wish for death of PwSDs overtime and the factors associated with this wish. Methods 215 caregivers of community dwelling PwSDs were surveyed every 4 months for 2 years. Using the mixed-effects multinomial regression model, we assessed the PwSD and caregiver factors associated with caregivers’ wish for PwSDs’ death. Results At baseline, 27% caregivers expressed a wish for PwSDs’ life to end sooner. Overall, 43% of the caregivers expressed a wish for PwSDs’ death at least once during the study period and 11% expressed it consistently. Caregivers’ perception of PwSDs’ lower quality of life (RRR: 1.05, 95% CI: 1.00, 1.10), higher functional dependency (RRR: 1.1, 95% CI: 1.01, 1.21), eating difficulty (RRR: 2.25, 95% CI: 1.26, 4.04) and suffering (RRR: 1.92, 95% CI: 1.05, 3.52) were associated with this wish. Caregivers who were emotionally close to PwSDs were less likely (RRR: 0.25, 95% CI: 0.11, 0.55) while those who understood that dementia is a terminal illness were more likely (RRR: 2.01, 95% CI: 1.03, 3.92) to express this wish. Conclusion Caregivers’ wish for PwSDs’ death changed over time and was primarily driven by their perception of PwSDs’ poor well-being and awareness of their illness being terminal, indicating a need for increased support in this challenging caregiving context.